Conversation 058 – Three categories of people/existence!

Seeker 2: Good morning…

Seeker 1: Hi Sir………..Good morning……….

Seeker 2: Good afternoon 🙂

Seeker 2: I know you don’t have lunch…but did you had anything today?

Seeker 1: Ohhh you remember that……..yeah, I had something in the morning…

Seeker 2: I remember almost everything…that is my biggest problem ☹

Seeker 1: 😊

Seeker 2: Forgetfulness is really good and very beneficial in so many ways…

Seeker 2: I also have this peculiar habit that aggravates this 😊 I note it down somewhere as soon as I realise when something wrong happens or if I am hurt by someone. So, I can’t forget it because I tend to refer to them at some point…that always serves as a reminder when I have to interact with that person again…which happens almost all the time ☹

Seeker 1: Haha!

Seeker 2: That’s why I can almost relate to everyone and everything since my school days…and with the 16-companies and the people I worked with. I have contacts all over the place..i have close to 1100 contacts in my LinkedIn (LOL).

Seeker 2: You wouldn’t believe I can tell the names of all my classmates from my 11th/12th class in ascending order even now 😊…I am not sure I told you this before. There were 29 of them…

Seeker 1: No, you haven’t spoken me about this…

Seeker 2: Oh okay…I told this list in our reunion at school few years back and they were stunned and couldn’t believe my craziness 😊

Seeker 1: ohh great! 😊

Seeker 2: Every day everyone hears the list of the class by the class teacher while taking the attendance and it involuntary went inside me but not into everyone 🙂

Seeker 1: Interesting! 🙂

Seeker 2: I mean one’s memory could be developed in so many ways…all we need to do is to listen…

Seeker 2: For example, remembering all the 1000 names of Lord Vishnu in Sri Vishnu Sahasranamam does serve lots of purposes…which I was very fortunate by the grace of my parents who made me to attend a class at a nearby place and made me learn it by heart during my 6th standard holidays and that has been my constant companion since then…That has been and will always be my biggest saviour in all circumstances…Any time any place any situation….

Seeker 2: It always reminds us that there is always a supreme person who is a supreme protector with supreme qualities. Just thinking about all those qualities as is in these names will inspire us to develop that quality at least to a minute extent that would enable us to develop as a conscious individual.

Seeker 2: Otherwise we are continuing to get caught up with the situations that has been created by us only and thinking we can get out of every situation by ourselves!!!

Seeker 2: Just think on this aspect and if this really appeals to you, you are really apart from the rest of the crowd…I see you as a person of a different level and category since the first time I met you and that’s why I am saying this… otherwise I have no reasons to say these things to anyone…I tell you this..

Seeker 2: There are just three categories or people, or you can say just stages in our existence(if at all one is fortunate to navigate from one level to the next level)…

Seeker 2: Exist…Live…Realise

Seeker 2: Exist are those who don’t have the reason or knowledge to comprehend what and why things are happening to them or to people around them…

Seeker 2: Live are those who knows a little bit of what and why things are happening around them and learn to live with them but they don’t have the means to go beyond them…

Seeker 2: Realise are those who is able to comprehend what is the real truth behind everything…why things are happening…Who is behind all this…to go beyond that to realise that there is no actual thing as happiness or sorrow in this world and everything just passes…

Seeker 2: These are the three real categories of people or existence.

Seeker 2: So, it is through our own efforts and sacrifices to reach or achieve which states of existence we want to be in or want to become.

Seeker 2: All I say now are coming out of my spontaneous learnings and realisations. If you have heard these things from anyone else please do let me know. I would be really privileged to be submissive and learn and know more from him/her further. I know but I can’t say this in much simpler terms than this…

Seeker 2: This is the entire summary of my learning all these years, primarily from two scriptures, Shrimad Bhagavad Gita and Srimad Bhagavatham.

Seeker 2: I don’t know why I am saying this to you only but I do and could relate to people as to what are their expectations in their life are. And say these to only those kinds of people of that calibre to comprehend these aspects…

Seeker 2: Age does not matter here. Only mental maturity matters!

Seeker 2: I will say even my six-year-old kid is more mentally mature to deal with situations and knows lot of these aspects in the form of Krishna Katha as described in 10th Canto of Srimad Bhagavatham and also the detailed reasons and activities behind the 10 incarnations of Lord Vishnu in various cantos of Srimad Bhagavatham that even the 25 years old+ colleagues of yours cannot… 😦 He will also be able to narrate the entire events and the characters in the first canto of Srimad Bhagavatham…Just lending one’s ears is all that matters…

Seeker 2: Most of what I said is in that recorded conversation/interview in Tamil that day, I know hardly anyone will pay any attention to it…People don’t know what is important for life and what is not. No one can help it 🙂 Even the Gods can’t help it as Krishna himself says it, unless one realises these aspects by one’s own efforts, this is not going to happen!

Seeker 2: Do read this again in your leisure and let me know.

<<sometime later>>

Seeker 1: I think I would be on PIP (Performance Improvement Plan) now… and these people are not giving me anything to work …

Seeker 2: Don’t bother about anything…that’s all I can say…Good for you…

Seeker 1: No, it’s not good ☹

Seeker 2: That means it is very much possible for them to ask you to leave the place without you having to serve notice period for 3 months 😊

Seeker 1: I have never faced this kind of issues with me before…everything is going against me these days…

Seeker 2: As if I have faced these kind of things before (LOL)…I have been a top performer in all companies throughout my career…you can check all my projects and all the teams that I had led…I had never let down any company I worked with nor the teams that I handled any time…and i had always been a kind of a father figure in my later days or an elder brother all the time during my early days…

Seeker 2: Seriously 🙂

Seeker 2: If you end up in a pathetic company with a pathetic work culture, you are not to be blamed for it…

Seeker 2: Still there are places based on your approach and skills you will be respected for what you are…otherwise you should have the skills and guts in you to quit and go for somewhere else… whenever you see any irregularities…

Seeker 2: I quit every time whenever my reputation was at stake and someone else was readily willing to offer me a position all the time till now…otherwise I would not have end up in 16 different places in 20 odd years… 🙂

Seeker 1: But no one is willing to take me at this time…

Seeker 2: Same with me either ☹ Time will surely change… I can’t give you much more motivation on this because we have already spoken on this quite a lot and you have also come to a good mindset to handle it, I guess…

Seeker 2: I don’t want you to look at my present situation and empathize with me because that is not going to solve anything, similar is your situation on me empathizing with you…

Seeker 2: I can and I only want to be a good well-wisher and support to you at this time for reasons I really don’t know…as to why i am paying this much special attention…

Seeker 2: Just got to realise that the present cause is for a long-term effect and we are going through everything in phases just like how we go from a temporary stage from a baby to a boy/girl to a teenager to an adult and so on…

Seeker 2: and everything is in continuation from what was before…these things are really very hard to take in for normal people but as i said if one attempts to transcend to the third category, then these situations are to be taken as God-sent as to how to handle these things to enable us to realise the real purpose and the result that is to come out of the present situation…

Seeker 2: I am just saying these things to you because this is the reality and if you are able to take this…you will realise that there is a purpose to anything that is happening and not get entangled with situations that are not the actual reality but appear to be real!

Author: Rajini

"Knowledge is the ultimate perfection of self-realization.". (Srimad Bhagavatham 3.26.2) Trying to seek that knowledge through life experiences that leads to compassion, dispassion and ultimately satisfaction.

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